Feel Our Power

Would you cop a look at all those ideas for workout DVDs in the last entry? Thank you SO much to the groovy groovers who posted their favourites. Feel free to keep adding your comments, other people seem to be finding it handy too. I had no idea there were so many out there.

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You may remember me mentioning the lovely Julia, who has in the past sent me sporty clothes and helped me get started with running. She has just started a blog herself, as she's aiming to blast away 5 stray post-baby kilos in the next 5 weeks. She's also training for a marathon! 5 days a week! She needs a cheer squad so why not head on to Five in Five. I give it 5 stars. Hehe.

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Speaking of fabulous people you meet via the internets, I have to talk about Jillian again, San Francisco hostess-extraordinaire. You may recall me mentioning how Scottish Companion, my then-fiancee, did not know that I knew Jillian through Dietgirl. I just told him we'd be staying with This Chick I Know From The Internet. As the big day loomed I just couldn't seem to bring myself to tell him the truth, still feeling strangely embarrassed about the site and the fact I'd kept it from him for so long. Jillian told me she'd go along with whatever I decided, she and her hubby were even training each other to call me by my real name and not Dietgirl, ha ha!

Finally when we were sitting in Amsterdam airport waiting on our connection, I decided to 'fess up. We were tired, disheveled and barely coherent, so the timing was perfect!

"Hey Scottish Companion," I said nervously, "I have to come clean about something."

He turned paler than his already pale Scottish Complexion. "Oh?"

"I didn't meet Jillian through my blog. I met her through this other blog I have. It's about losing weight and stuff. And I've had it just as long as the other one. And I put in about the same amount of time on it. And people read it just as much."

"You are kidding me?"

I babbled on about being sorry for not telling him and blah blah blah, but he just said, "Jeez you had me worried! I thought it would be 'Wedding's off'. The last time a girlfriend said she had to come clean about something it was REALLY BAD! This is totally cool!"

So I told him a wee bit more about it and how there's all these groovy diet blogs and it's really motivating and blah blah blah. He couldn't believe I'd managed to keep it quiet for so long but he thought it all sounded very cool.

Anyway 12 hours later we sat in Jillian's SF kitchen and I told her that it was okay, HE KNEW THE SCORE! She seemed relieved, hehe. And as she prepared some verrry delicious salad plus soup with teeny tiny alphabet pasta in it, she told SC how she'd been reading Dietgirl for ages after someone at her Weight Watchers meeting mentioned it, and that it had been a fun and inspiring read. Well I tell you what, it was SO freaky to hear a real live person talking about this site, a person you'd only just met knowing all this stuff about you. It was like it finally dawned on me that the website was a real thing about a real person that people actually read while sitting down in front of their computers with a coffee. Until then I think I'd naively thought I was just tapping out my rants and raves and they just sort of floated around in the ether and some otherworldly beings left comments now and then.

And she talked about how she'd witnessed Dietgirl slowly transform from being very large and lonely and struggling with depression to someone significantly smaller and happier and about to be hitched. And I sat there thinking, "Holy shit! She's talking about me! I did all that stuff that she read about it! So that's who I've been writing about all this time! And now I am on the other side of the world about to eat her soup with teeny tiny alphabet pasta in it. How freaky cool is that!?"

Later as SC and I were drifting off to sleep at the jetlagged time of 7.30 PM, he snuggled up behind me and told me he was so proud of me and just amazed and awed that I was doing something that was helping and inspiring a lot of people. I squirmed and was too mortified to speak for awhile. But here's what I said to him and what I want you to all know.

"Well, hold on there tiger," is what I said, "I'm not like Oprah or anything. I am but one drop of oil in the large, vast deep fryer of inspirational bloggers out there."

I read a helluva lot of diet, health, fitness blogs, whatever you want to call them. It's the first thing I do when I get to work every morning (what a dedicated employee). Every day, without fail, there will be something there to make me think or smile or cry or giggle. Some  of you inspire me to run, some inspire me to cook some aduki beans, some inspire me to like myself more, some make me stop my whining and get on with it. No matter what mood I'm in, there'll be someone feeling the same way or someone who'll say the write the perfect thing to snap me out of it. This blog palaver has been the most important tool I've had while busting this lard. Not those bloody Slimming magazine stories where they say, "I walked the dog and ate fun-size Mars Bars and lost a steady 1 kilo a week!".

No, us bloggers are all in it for the long haul and share our ups and downs. We share information and inspiration and understanding. Think of your non-blog circle of friends out there in the Real World. How many of them are on Lard Busting Missions? How many of them understand your freaky struggles with Whole Pints of Ice Cream and love/hate relationship with the scale? How many of them are interested in talking about squats and omega-3s and calories burned?

So I just thought we should all stop and think for a wee moment about how cool this stuff is. It's only since I met Jillian and confessed to SC that I think I really fully appreciated just how important it is. So lets all gather in a big circle, group hug then hump each others legs like overexcited terriers and thank your chosen deity for bringing us the technology. RAWK!

14 thoughts on “Feel Our Power

  1. My blog and internet friends are the only ones that know what I’m up to diet and fitnesswise! I think it’s amazing how close I feel to a good number without having met them yet. Thank goodness for you, DG, and all others for helping me keep my sanity through this diet journey πŸ™‚

  2. Hi, I’ve been reading your site for ages and never posted a comment here for some reason…just wanted to say thanks for being so dedicated to keeping yours going (I have lost quite a bit too and used to have a site so I know how much time it can take!) and also for being so honest in your posts. They are very motivating and funny too πŸ™‚

  3. how right you are! i an just picture you james brown style saying that in a overeaters anonymous meeting! But, please don’t underestimate yourself. Yes, there are a whole number of supportive sites out there but You are something very special dg. How can a 70 kilo loss not be inspirational????

  4. Just de-lurking to say that I am addicted to reading blogs because I never fail to get inspired by at least one, if not more, people going through the same thing I’m going through. I’ve especially always appreciated your site because of your candor and voice. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us! It’s been a great ride so far, and I’m sure it will only keep getting better for you! Okay, I’m giving myself a cavity, but I really do mean it DG.

  5. *breaks into TinaTurner styles* YOURE SIMPLY THE BEST! BETTER THAAAN ALLLL THE REST….
    good for you, coming clean to SC, sometimes things arent as scary as we think they are going to be πŸ™‚ *hugs too*

  6. Hump, hump, hump!

    Honestly, I wouldn’t be where I am right now without the support I’m getting from everyone who reads my site and all the sites I read.

    So thank you, DG, superheroine of the world and thanks to deities of choice for the technology to bring you to us!

  7. oooooh I am late in joining the group hug…but I am joining anyway!!!!

    I would have not even begun to blog myself if it wasnt for you!!!!

    Your post was trut to each and every word, and SC has proven to be a star once more!

  8. I can’t tell you and other bloggers how many times I’ve been inspired to keep going when I wanted to quit. I’ve been reading your blog for over a year and it has been so helpful. I know people who need to lose maybe 20-40 pounds but I don’t know anyone who needs to lose more than that. I can only talk to them to a certain point. It’s nice to know that there are others who have been and are going on the same “journey” I am. So glad you told SC!

  9. *joins group hug*

    There’s hardly anybody in real life, I can talk about this stuff to. I’ve tried doing it by myself but always fallen off the wagon. So yeah all these nutrition/fitness type blogs have played a HUGE role in motivating me to get back on track.

    Sometimes, I dont have the time to read/comment everyones posts or even blog much myself but just seeing the entries popping up on my feedreader every morning reminds me that I’m not alone. That there are hundreds of other people out there going through the same thing as me. Its a good feeling.

    Thanks for being part of it all πŸ™‚

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